我很想说

要维持一段一度破裂的关系，

需要双方很多很多的努力。

首先，

必须收起惯性的恶言恶语。

说出来的话，

或许不是你真正想表达的，

听者却会真正因此而深感受伤。

情感的裂痕没有对错，

因为最终崩溃的关系，

输的是大家。

这必须是一个共识。

两个人必须从零点开始，

咬住舌头不再提往事，

然后从这个破裂点，

一步一步一起修补。

在修补过程中，

忍让是很重要的。

很多习惯和思想，

不是一朝一夕能够改变的。

在发现自己快变成刺猬之前，

一定要马上深呼吸，

然后退到一个无人角落，

等气消了，再出来冷静沟通，

一起解决。

“一起”，很重要。

当两个人的一切，

都不再是“一起”，

空气将会渐渐填满两个人的距离。

两个人一定要真心，

想回到“一起”。

那是最基本的动力。

然后坦诚相对，

一起解决彼此的问题。

那是一段感情的精髓。

在我眼里，

最终这在于你，

到底愿不愿意去努力。

若真正努力后，

还是不能在一起，

那么至少你已经尽力。

Strength

I saw two beautiful stars,

just outside the window, side by side.

And somehow, I was touched.

No matter how bad,

we thought things will be,

we will eventually get over it.

And regardless what comes may,

we will be strong enough,

to stand up once again,

and move on.

May peace be with us.

心系

CS 最近常说，

since it's something we cannot control,

那就不要想太多。

是啊，

太多事我们无法控制。

一切事起，

必有它的原因。

或许事过的以后，

我们才能看清。

不论如何，

我希望一切和平。

你的努力，

不应该只是给我们看而已。

做出来的戏，

会失去了它真正的意义。

弟弟。小飞

凌晨 5 点半，

天未亮。

母亲冲进我们各自的房里，

兴奋地叫我们起床。

一片之星的弟弟，

终于出现于《烈血青春》里。

那是很久很久以前的戏了，

现在周日五点在第八播道放映。

爸妈知道后很兴奋，

每天早上五点爬起来，

等待弟弟的“出现”。

于是全家人都被叫醒了，

趴在爸妈的床上累眼惺忪地，

等待他“现身”。

小时的弟弟样子傻傻的，

跟现在没差。

呵呵。

嗯，不过，

如果可以不用凌晨五点起床，

也能看到以前“精彩”的弟弟。

那该多好。

Please

Let Bangkok be ok...

I so look forward to this trip :(

Let everything be ok,

before the week ends...

The price

Feeling a little drain now,

hence I'm just going to put this down in English,

just to remind myself.

Last night at Klee,

JY & I were talking about birthday presents.

She mentioned that,

women our age would probably throw a fuss,

if their man just buy them a simple NIKE bag,

for their birthday.

I was pretty taken aback.

What is wrong with a NIKE bag?

Actually,

I'm not offended by JY's statement.

Knowing her for so long,

she's just saying what comes into her mind.

It just got me thinking.

I told JY,

I don't grow up in a family,

where such materialism overrides,

the value of the intent to give.

Any present to me is a good present.

It's the person that matters.

I do not see value in a diamond ring,

if this sum of money is more needed for other things.

I think it is a very sad thing,

if your Love is tagged to the value of money.

It is only but,

the tool to get to your means.

It can be earned.

Yet Love,

is rare and precious,

and should be cherished,

with the heart,

not with the money.

Wessex Village

每年我和 JY 至少见面两次。

今年 JY 说带我去吃，

庆祝我生日。

于是昨日，

开着她的车子，

寻找着隐藏岛国内的鲜为人知。

Wessex Village Square

在岛国幽静的角落，

让人感觉仿佛身在异国。

没有喧闹，没有人群，没有压迫。

我们走进了那里的

Pietrasanta - The Italian Restaurant。

后院有许多让人 chill-out 的地方，

还有我最喜欢的“秋千”。

过后，我们去了附近的 Klee 喝酒。

坐在吧台前，

和老友 JY 闲聊，

听着悦耳的蓝调，

看着帅气的调酒师调酒，

人生一大享受。

Ramblings

For some reason,
i feel really worn out,
even after a night of sleep.

It has been a long time,
since I wake up feeling fresh.

These nights,
I would wake up,
in the wee hours,
running a terrible flu.

And then I sleep,
waking up in the next morning,
with the flu again.

I HATE flu,
yet it loves me.

And there's simply nothing,
NOthing at all I can do about it.

I think I should really try to sleep earlier.

My 9.30pm went to 10pm,
and subsequently 10.30pm, 11.00pm,
now 1.30am.

This is real bad.

Doesn't help when,
I have to wake up as early as 5.25am.

I HATE early mornings.

I am not an early-riser.

When I was a baby,
Mother used to tell me,
how I slept till noon every day.

I was the GOOD baby,
who rarely wakes up kicking a fuss,
demanding my milk.

I would rather sleep.

Even now though I just wake up,
I feel like sleeping again.

I think,
I should really get myself together,
and make this whole thing good again.

If I can make a wish...

I wish for peace.

For my beloved family,

for more laughter, happiness & Love.

I wish for strength & faith.

To my love who tries to make things happen,

for a future we dream together.

I wish for growth.

To grow in wisdom and grace,

to do my part & not be a nuisance for a better place.

If I can make a wish,

on my special day,

I wish for us,

to be happy and at ease.

物语

十二朵

Be mine.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

十一朵

You're my one & only.

~~~~~~~~~~~~

玫瑰的意义。

不同的时期，

同样动人的爱语。

Satisfied

Watch Avenue Q yesterday.

Went without any expectations,

hence was blown away.

Never once thought that puppets,

could perform in such a way.

And those powerful voices.

Have not been watching a lot of plays this year,

however the two I attended,

Vagina Monologues and this,

were satisfying.

I am a happy audience.

And I can't wait for HUAYI.

我喜欢

每天晚上说再见前，

你唱歌给我听。

不知为何，

这让我睡得更安心。

婚姻

昨天中午，

参加了 B 姐的婚礼。

在双方宣誓前，

主持宣誓的牧师说了这么一段话。

How to sustain a marriage.

You need to look deep into each other.

That person is your goal,

do not be distracted by others.

Stay focus on your Goal.

Secondly,

you need to put aside time for your Goal.

Do not just give leftovers.

If you give leftovers,

you will only get leftovers.

Give quality time,

you will get quality love.