年纪大了一点

29 的今天，

对自我了解多一点，

对别人看清多一些。

了解了在爱人面前，

无法控制地变成小霸王。

要不是另一半不离不弃，

绝口不提分手，

恐怕离离合合数十次。

看清了许多人，

好人、奸人、泛泛之交、朋友。

感激身边所有真诚的人，

真挚的友谊，亲情和爱人。

谢谢你们。

haven

something about today
touched me deeply

could it be
your planned birthday spa surprise
or the way you place me before yourself
could it be

something about today
touched me deeply

i saw a man
who will do anything for me
who take my happiness as his
who promise to be there forever
and will be there for ever

something about today
touched me deeply
so deeply i feel safe and happy

吉日与否

是由谁决定的？

是你吗，

那个拿着通书的？

是他吗，

那个算我们生辰八字的？

还是那些无谓无聊唯恐天下不乱的人，

凭着一张嘴到处说，

这个日子冲谁，

那个时辰冲谁？

我不知道你们的说法，

谁最正确。

我只知道，

我从小读书考试考到大学毕业，

从来没有算日子。

没有在吉日吉时结婚，

后果要我们自负，

是一种诅咒吗？

我只知道，

在吉日结婚最后离婚的人，

大有人在。

结婚应该是一件快乐的事。

我们忙着工作，忙着找酒店，

忙着找婚纱店，忙着找房子，

已忙得不可开交了。

难道就不能

让我们日子好过一些吗？

我母亲教我，

婚姻是否幸福，

是由两个人决定的。

如果吉日真的可以决定什么，

它决定了大家的关系，

因它而变质。

启

筹备婚礼，

是婚姻的一场预备课。

所有的分歧开始浮现，

彼此的缺点更加明显。

然而，

两人必须一起走过。

从分歧找到体谅和了解，

从缺点找到无尽的包容，

无私的爱。

你我都不完美。

但，

愿我们能在爱中，

填补彼此的不完美，

然后这样过很久很久。

谢谢你为我做的一切。

我爱你。

启程

2010年 10月 9日

Being

from behind
your arms wrapped my body
as it coughed violently

and you patted my back
so gently as if trying
to take away all discomfort

as i lay against your chest
i thought of all that you are to me

and i hope i will be
as Mdm Kwa is to MM Lee

中秋

在电脑前呆了近半小时

写了，删除

又再写，又删除

脑袋装满了很多思绪

却完全无法表达

我没有不好

只是些许无奈

今晚没看到月圆

也没有团圆

楼下玩着灯笼和蜡烛的孩子

传来的阵阵欢笑声

却提醒着要惜福

中秋节快乐

记得要惜福哦

We will be fine.

We are all trying to

make sense of our experiences.

Some go to fortune tellers,

some understand them from religious teachings,

others bank a good 3K on Life Coaching.

We are all trying to

make a better life based on our experiences.

Some change their names believing it will bring a smoother future,

some attempt to change their entire attitude and outlook,

others do what they believe they ought to do

and pray hard.

My experiences for the past few years brought me a lot of fear.

At the same time,

I was lavished with love

and heartfelt appreciation towards Life itself.

There is nothing more we can do

to show how much we cherish our lives,

than to immerse ourselves in every possible moment

of happiness and bliss.

Hence I refuse to be beaten by fear.

If anything were to come,

it will come.

There is nothing much I can do about it,

for life is such that you can only expect the unexpected.

Instead of fearing for it,

I want to embrace what I have now.

And I shall live with the knowledge

that I have done what I can do.

The rest is up to my faith.

This post serves as a reminder,

of what is really important to be focused on.

I have much to be afraid of,

but being afraid isn't going to bring me anywhere.

I need to focus on the light at the end of the tunnel,

and believe that light is not too far away.

We will all hang in there and be happy about it, won't we?

We will be fine.

On the bright side

we will always look towards.

For you and me,

to December, to April.

Endure,

Never lose vision,

Stand tall.

照片在说话

谢谢你们。

你们是我继续

还在这里的原因。