Tuesday, September 08, 2009


Once again,
CS & I went into a discussion,
on the kind of housing to look for,
and what was adviced from my parents.

Once again,
I was the one who started the discussion,
and the one who "do not want to talk about it anymore".

Thinking about these makes me feel excited,
but discussing about them in reality however,
wear me down really.

Trying to get into a marriage is really not easy,
less to say already on one.

It felt like a project two embarked on.

You discuss, reconcile and compromise.
And that's only the beginning.

At the end of it,
when you lie on your bed,
exhausted by the whole string of events,
you realised that you are actually on your way to,
another bigger project.

Marriage itself.

I'm grateful that,
CS and I do not work out differences,
in a quarrelsome manner.

And I am really grateful,
for his tolerance and patience.

when my hormones get the better of me.


Anonymous said...

Hey, i finally found some way to get around the censorships here! Glad to read on what's happening in your life. Take good care ya :)
hug from SH,

蓝月 said...

琳!:) hope you're doing well too. are you 姐妹for xuan's wedding?
anyway, hope to see you then, and catch up.


Angela Jie Jie said...

Ah mei ah mei.. are you going to get married soon? :) Come on..what's the plan? This time around, you better let me meet Mr CS!

蓝月 said...

haha...angela jiejie, not so soon... but talking abut it before the actual thing helps to improve understanding and prevent future conflicts ;) I want him to meet Emma and Vera as well.

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